Hi Susan:
Thanks for responding. This parent item at the moment is the last, but certainly could be changed to be the first item. Either way, targeting seems like a sound approach. This is a responsive menu, so there is a ton of css and js that drives it. The positioning is done with the ul class of left and right. Thus, I am reluctant to mess with the existing structure by trying to position a stray nav menu item.
I have pdoMenu working with only two tpl chunks. I call them simply inner and outer and the menu functions great. With other menus, I remember having 4 chunks, but with the foundation 5 menu, these two chunks seem to do the trick—except for the left and right thing:)
innerTpl
<!-- nav_main_innerTpl -->
<ul[[+wf.classes]]>
[[+wf.wrapper]]
</ul>
outerTpl (ignore the title area ul, it's hard coded, and doesn't need to be a part of the pdoMenu)
<nav [[+wf.classes]] data-topbar data-options="mobile_show_parent_link: true">
<ul class="title-area">
<!-- Title Area -->
<li class="name"><p>PROPERTIES</p></li>
<!-- Remove the class "menu-icon" to get rid of menu icon. Take out "Menu" to just have icon alone -->
<li class="toggle-topbar menu-icon">
<a href="#"><span></span></a>
</li>
</ul>
<section class="top-bar-section">
<ul class="left">
THIS IS WHERE I WANT ONE OF THE PARENT ITEMS (and children) to be placed
</ul>
<ul class="right">
[[+wf.wrapper]]
</ul>
</section>
</nav>