mckcd,
Seeing this is your first post, welcome to MODx!
Wayfinder will output almost anything! I think I say that in the book somewhere...it will all boil down to your imagination. I think I also say that it is important to visualise the different parts of the menu you want to port to Wayfinder and then break them into chunks....OK, enough of the lecture already.
Yes, you can modify the html tags that wayfinder outputs to suit your needs. Btw, I don’t get what you mean by "clickable but not anchor"...U mean a dummy link?
OK, let us break this down.
Your outerTpl will be
<ul id="side-menu">
[+wf.wrapper+]
</ul>
your rowTpl
<li>...WF placeholders as usual including [+wf.wrapper+]</li>
Your innerTpl
<ol>...WF placeholders as usual including [+wf.wrapper+]</ol>
And finally, your innerRowTpl
<li>...WF placeholders as usual including [+wf.wrapper+]</li>
Add you <a> tags etc in the tpl chunks as usual. Also, add the WF placeholders that you need. That’s all there is to it
Hope this helps
cheers/k