Frustrated Newby... Wayfinder is hiding my parent

Two hours... can’t find solution. sorry if I am missing the obvious...

Here is a sample of my menu:

Parent 1
Doc 1
Doc 2
Doc 3
Doc 3.1
Doc 3.2
Doc 4

Parent 2
Doc 1
Doc 2
Doc 3

In my template for Parent 1
Wayfinder is simply set as: [[Wayfinder?startId=`1` ]]

But I want my output to include the parent (which is also id="1")

I get:
Doc 1
Doc 2
Doc 3
Doc 3.1
Doc 3.2

But want:
Parent 1
Doc 1
Doc 2
Doc 3
Doc 3.1
Doc 3.2

I’ve hit the wall after trying what seems to be every combination of $parentClass calls I can think of... I’m missing something!! Can somebody shed light on my pool of frustration? I’m struggling to get out the gate with this tool.

try

&displayStart=`true`

see list of parameters:
http://www.muddydogpaws.com/development/wayfinder/parameters.html

didn’t work. I’ve been rereading the parameters page till my eyes are ready to bleed.... anybody else?

BTW, I have installed WF2.0...


Ran debug in my code, got these results... which I suspect is my problem. Where do I make my adjustment to get a TRUE response?

parentRowTpl - No template found, using default.
parentRowTpl FALSE
parentRowHereTpl - No template found, using default.
parentRowHereTpl FALSE

Ok, well, I fixed my problem by generating a duplicate of the parent page, minus the container designation.

then I went back to the Parent page and replaced my page content with "FirstChildRedirect".

If anybody has a more proper solution, I’ll be glad to implement it.

Hai am also having some problem with this wayfinder..can u help me buliding the menu..i have two level menus..is it possible inwayfinder