This appears to be an acceptable solution:
<li [[+wf.classes]]><a href="[[*id]]" title="[[+wf.title]]" [[+wf.attributes]]><span>[[+wf.linktext]]</span></a>[[+wf.wrapper]]</li>
If user clicks on parent link it just refreshes/calls the current page. Child links work as normal and call their respective page.
see
in the above code
You could also work with this
http://www.kunane.com/modx/wayfinder-nested-accordion.html#jfab1e7fb8 where by the parent is automatically disabled. Alter the css to float the li’s left maybe if you want a horizontal menu. It’s a v useful accordion menu. For modx revo use the double square bracket syntax and remove the rightmost + in the chunk syntax
revo syntax
<li [[+wf.classes]]>
<a title="[[+wf.title]]" href="#">[[+wf.linktext]] »</a>
[[+wf.wrapper]]
</li>