Wha-bam looks like that was it, the hosting CP interface didn’t quite get my DB user added to my DB.
Looks like a need practice with the CP interface tools....
Hey anyways, looks like maybe I don’t need any help after all... So Far...
Yep yup, hey I’m good all installed, almost painless.
First app I tried installing on my new host, so that was the only thing that made it even a bit dicey.
If all goes well, I’ll have a real site on my domain.

sidenote, this was so much easier than installing on an iis server...