Quote from: PeterH at May 12, 2006, 07:49 PMTrolls are popping up everywhere.
*sigh*
Peter, while I understand your feeling as a newcomer, but we are patient, hepful, and even more...
I am not sure it’s Trolls popping up, or if there are trolls popping up, it’s in response to some
vampires
Time to do some reading (bugsmi0, hint hint...) and do some introspection
Introspection goes for us as well, we’re doing to much direct helping sometimes, as the article says :
Quote from: TheEnforce autonomy. No matter how beneficent you’re feeling, never directly answer a common question. This is the lazy way out, and you only enable the Help Vampires instead of truly helping them. Let the URL to your help resources be your only answer, but tell the vamp you are happy to help if he explores those avenues of self-help and still cannot find an answer.
Now I should carve this on the wall !
But this is equally true
Quote from: TheFoster thinking. Even if it’s not a question you see go bye fifty times a day... don’t answer it with a direct fix (unless the person is a known non-vamp, or it’s a real puzzler). Answer with questions to spur (and guide) thought. If the Help Vampire resists thinking or complains, give them the URL for the Resources page and withhold further assistance.
Reward self-help and helping others. Thank people who ask intelligent questions and do research first, and people who make an effort to help others. Tell them they’re a credit to the community. Be especially generous with praise and emoticons for those who are actively reforming their ways. Help is a trickle-down economy.