[[!getPage? &elementClass=`modSnippet` &element=`getResources` &parents=`[[*id]]` &limit=`10` &pageLimit=`5` &tpl=`bvFeedContainerTpl` &includeContent=`1` &includeTVs=`1` &processTVs=`1` &totalVar=`total` &offset=`0` &pageVarKey=`page`]]
This question has been answered by markh. See the first response.
I think &pageLimit should be interpreted as the number of pages in a certain direction. So &pageLimit=`5` would show 5 pages back and 5 pages forward (plus the current = your 11 links).
Maybe pdoPage is more flexible in defining the page limits the way you want it...