

use &parentRowHereTpl and &parentRowTpl parameters, create template like this:
<li[+wf.classes+]><span ...... >[+wf.linktext+]»</span>[+wf.wrapper+]</li>
all parameters with exapmples exist in wayfinder documentation (assets/snippets/wayfinder/wayfinder.documentation.html)
[attach your images here too please]

<ul class="expandfirst" >[+wf.wrapper+]</ul>
&outerTpl=`YourOuterTplName`
)<ul id="menu" class="menu"> [+wf.wrapper+] </ul>
[!Wayfinder? &startId=`0` &level=`2`&rowIdPrefix=`Menu` &jsTpl=`jsTpl` &cssTpl=`cssTpl` &outerTpl=`outerTpl`&rowTpl=`rowTpl` &innerTpl=`innerTpl` &innerRowTpl=`innerRowTpl`&parentRowTpl=`parentRowTpl` &parentRowHereTpl=`parentRowHereTpl` &hereTpl=`hereTpl`!]
<li id="menu" class="menu expandfirst" [+wf.classes+]><a href="[+wf.link+]" title="[+wf.title+]" [+wf.id+]><em class="ikona"></em>[+wf.linktext+]</a>[+wf.wrapper+]</li>
<ul id="menu1" class="topmenu"> to <ul id="menu1" class="menu">
Thanks for that, but I got that working...
I created your menu, it worked! you can watch it in attached file.