Ok, well that at least tells us that mail is being sent from the server sucessfully via other means. I haven’t played with Formit yet, so I just spent the last 15 minutes browsing through the documentation and becoming familiar with hooks. From what I’ve read, it sounds like if any of the hooks you have defined fails, then none of the following hooks will be processed.
Now, that being said, I believe you stated previously that you are getting to the redirect page? If so, then that leads me to believe that the spam and email hooks are processing successfully (at least on the backend), since redirect is the last hook in you have defined.
So, assuming that email is at least "reporting" success, it’s possible the mail is getting dumped prior to being sent off of the server. This is where access to the server mail logs would be nice. If your hosting service has a control panel that includes this function, I would highly recommend checking there to see if you can see any test mails even passing through the server’s mail queue.
One other thing that caught my eye is a missing closing tag in your emailTpl. I’m not sure if this would prevent the whole process from completing successfully, but it might be worth at least checking:
Top line in your emailTpl containts two open "p" tags, but nothing closing them. I’m guessing a typo on that second one?
<p><strong>[[+name]]</strong> ([[+email]]) ([[+phone]])<br />Wrote: <p>
I’m also going to install this on my system later today, as it is a function I need to get familiar with for another project anyway. Unless you report back stating that the closing "p" magically fixes this, I’ll make my first order of business picking apart the email hook to see what it’s doing.
Swill